Enjoying Communication Process
NVC or NonViolent communication is a new way of enhancing our communication in a more powerful and effective manner. It is a life enriching experience where we can enhance our communication in our personal and professional lives without making use of physical force or sometimes harsh words. you will not disagree with me having experience of using harsh ways to achieve what we need to achieve and later experiencing some feeling that keeps something inside us bothering. We feel happy for what we had achieved by force but it is short lived and immediately after that happiness ends we realize that someone dear to us has been hurt and the very moment we realize this, our joy of achieving ends, doesn't it?
I remember reading these lines somewhere back in my childhood days may be in my Moral science book in school, I don't remember it exactly where I happened to read it but i always treasured it, it read as follows
Many a shaft at random sent
Finds mark that archer never meant
Many a words at random spoken
May soothe or wound the heart that's already broken
How to stay focused on Communication
Reading or knowing something that is good and valuable does not make us to act on it immediately. Have you ever experienced it that you knew it is not proper to do so and you still acted in the way. And kept regretting afterward and lived with a feeling of guilt? Let us try to find out why it happens, we know something and still we are not able to act on it. We decide, make strong resolutions, promises to ourselves not to act habitually and still keep continuing the same way of doing things.
NVC and Meditation Methods of Self Development
This is one aspect that not having clarity about our actions we block our self development and our personality is blocked from attaining its full potential development. Meditation is one way of getting connected to your inner world where everything arises, your thoughts and even shape of your personality. But many people find it difficult to sit and practice meditation. For those people who find it difficult to achieve this very essential and basic principle of Personality development and enhancing communication skills NVC has proved to be very powerful tool.
Like meditation it can help you to get connected to what is alive inside you? what is that you need to communicate? It is a very powerful process enhance your expressive as well as listening skills which are two very important aspects of communication as well as personality development.
We at Abhirati aim to provide you with those very powerful tools for self development. To know more stay in touch with us.
Abhirati
Center for Personal Development.
